Lesson 1. Understanding Communication Basics
Effective Communication (IS-242.b)
Page 1.36 Instructor Guide February 2014
Job Aid: Summary of Basic Communication Skills
Do’s . . . Don’ts . . .
Listening
Keep an open mind.
Maintain eye contact and show interest.
Listen for the central themes.
Consider the speaker’s nonverbal
behaviors and tone of voice.
Ask for clarification.
Paraphrase the meaning and feelings
being expressed.
Be judgmental.
Fake attention.
Interrupt the speaker.
Begin formulating a rebuttal.
Distort the message based on your own
beliefs or thoughts.
Nonverbal Communication
Eye Contact:
Look at people’s eyes.
Continually scan the group with your
eyes.
Look at the whole group.
Eye Contact:
Avoid eye contact.
Scan the group too rapidly or infrequently.
Only look at one or two people or at only
one side of the room.
Body Movement:
Position your body so you face the
majority of the people.
Vary your position in the room.
Stand with good posture.
Walk toward people when they speak.
Body Movement:
Talk to your notes, easel, or board.
Turn your back to part of the group.
Stand in fixed positions.
Slouch.
Distance yourself from people.
Gestures and Facial Expressions:
Use natural and spontaneous gestures.
Smile and be animated.
Convey emotion affirmatively.
Gestures and Facial Expressions:
Engage in distracting behavior such as
looking at your watch, or jingling change.
Look disinterested.
Use gestures or expressions that could be
seen as negative or judgmental.
Using Your Voice
Speak loud enough to be heard.
Vary the pace of your presentation.
Slow down for important points.
Use the pause.
Mumble.
Use “fillers” such as “like” or “um.”
Speak with a monotone voice.
Be afraid of pauses.